I write a lot in my notes app, as we all do, to process my emotions and make sense of my experiences. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about my relationship to dating and dating apps, and how often I (and the people around me) jump from person to person in an almost disposable way. On the one hand, it’s good to maintain an abundance mindset about dating, to recognize that there’s always another door to be opened and a new person to be met. But on the other hand, I’ve found this revolving door perspective renders dating to a conveyer belt. The problem with a conveyer belt is it never stops moving. There’s never time to stop, to think, and to feel. A conveyer belt lacks intentionality. Here’s something from my notes app where I begin to make this realization about my relationship to dating.
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